Start with the small things
You can ask where you’ll sit, whether music will play, what to wear and how a pause will work. Knowing the details can help you feel more at ease.
Describe comfort, not a performance
“I’d like to sit beside you before trying a hug.” “I prefer silence.” “Please ask before changing positions.” These requests help Jax understand what you need.
Leave room to change your mind
You can agree to a position and discover that it’s uncomfortable. Say so. A session doesn’t require you to continue something just because you said yes earlier.
Close with a check-in
Take time to sit up and get settled. You can share what you’d like Jax to remember if you book again. There’s no obligation to book again.